tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post4723577551285056329..comments2023-10-09T15:47:14.355-04:00Comments on And you may ask yourself-well...how did I get here?: Ten Years or Six MonthsStarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18241931590875029855noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-49978121756739810852011-02-23T17:47:18.002-05:002011-02-23T17:47:18.002-05:00I was married 2 years 7 months when I became a wid...I was married 2 years 7 months when I became a widow. I think each loss is different and comes with different pain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-71756982626674309742011-02-13T22:05:44.388-05:002011-02-13T22:05:44.388-05:00Honey, people are just clueless. Once on my REGULA...Honey, people are just clueless. Once on my REGULAR FB I asked "what do you think would be the worst part of losing your partner?" and the responses were pretty.... just "off." They had no idea.<br />Lucky, huh?Supa Dupa Freshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07659738264922395349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-72237528933786008032011-02-08T09:34:48.743-05:002011-02-08T09:34:48.743-05:00I am reading your blog for the first time. I lost ...I am reading your blog for the first time. I lost my husband after 15 years together. I can't imagine how horrible I would have felt being ripped apart in those ecstatic, thrilling, early months of marriage. I am sorry that you were.Jill Schacterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11356054469112135057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-51332694509762747552011-02-07T17:43:07.714-05:002011-02-07T17:43:07.714-05:00Star,
I was married almost 25 years .... and I wou...Star,<br />I was married almost 25 years .... and I wouldn't even think to compare your pain to mine. We both lost half of ourselves, our best friend .... and our dreams of the future.<br />That's nothing to compare .... by anyone.Janinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00949809367923657970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-75009353279164803462011-02-07T08:45:35.788-05:002011-02-07T08:45:35.788-05:00I call them the "untouched". They are c...I call them the "untouched". They are clueless, just like we were once. I wish we still were.<br /><br />I totally "get" what you're saying tho, and you are very right. The pain is the same whatever.Boohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695496303699631884noreply@blogger.com