tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post8204490869658406558..comments2023-10-09T15:47:14.355-04:00Comments on And you may ask yourself-well...how did I get here?: One Day...Starhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18241931590875029855noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-48136467974224282332009-11-20T13:16:19.047-05:002009-11-20T13:16:19.047-05:00I was not looking for love again, and i def was no...I was not looking for love again, and i def was not looking to get remarried. but with the right person in your life you will be able to incorporate Roger in your new life (when you are ready and it happens). I am beyond grateful for my fiance, we will be having a prayer read, a moment of silence and a in honor table to remember those that have passed away but mainly for My late husband Josiah. and yes there will be tears, and with out a doubt I will be thinking of Josiah, and yes I am scared of the emotions that the day may bring...it is all normal. so if you want to talk about Roger don't wait for someone else to bring him up, you do it, and those around you including your new husband will know and understandItzaLoveThanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04446089471739846014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-55308702381699924132009-11-19T22:06:29.850-05:002009-11-19T22:06:29.850-05:00No matter what, it won't be the same because y...No matter what, it won't be the same because you are not the same woman that you were. <br /><br />And what's wrong with crying at your wedding? When you feel ready to commit your life to someone, you'll have been through many tough emotional passages before the ceremony itself. Those moments in front of your family will reflect who you have become and where you are heading next, and the family and friends there to witness (should you choose to include them) will know that Roger is there, too, and smiling at your happiness.<br /><br />Life is LONG. It's hard for us to remember that sometimes. But it's TRUE!<br /><br />X<br /><br />Supa<br /><br />P.S. I'll dance if you invite me! But no pressure! ;-)Supa Dupa Freshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07659738264922395349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-67795627713814750612009-11-17T00:20:48.811-05:002009-11-17T00:20:48.811-05:00I just found your blog and I'm totally hooked....I just found your blog and I'm totally hooked. I have had these same thoughts. My husband died Aug 27, 2008. I woke up in the middle of the night and he was choking. He had a blood clot and died within 30 minutes. <br /><br />I can't wait to read more...I just started blogging and I'm so excited to find people "like me"!Sonjahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00429934584182296614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-81773893820819487712009-11-16T08:44:42.595-05:002009-11-16T08:44:42.595-05:00These thoughts are precisely why I want to have a ...These thoughts are precisely why I want to have a wedding that is completely opposite of the one I had with Mike. Which pretty much means that I'd like to elope next time or have a destination wedding. I still want to wear a nice dress and have fun with it, but I dont want to go through all the ceremony and fanfare I did the first time. I dont want it to be even remotely like the first wedding because I dont want to mentally compare it to the first... I dont even want my mind to go there. I want it to be a completely different experience, representing that I am with a completely different man. I want both weddings to stand separately from each other in my head. As completely different events. I dont want people who attend to compare the two weddings either. Or the two grooms. So I dont want to leave room for that to happen.<br /><br />Hopefully, though, I do meet a nice guy who recognizes Mike without feeling he's in competition with him...Mars Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11403414048823693159noreply@blogger.com