tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post8398528290115299847..comments2023-10-09T15:47:14.355-04:00Comments on And you may ask yourself-well...how did I get here?: The AnniversaryStarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18241931590875029855noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-57977042953909113812009-07-21T18:25:26.432-04:002009-07-21T18:25:26.432-04:00Well, one thing that my cousin does is she always ...Well, one thing that my cousin does is she always has a shindig. We celebrate his life that day. We go to his gravesite, hang out for a while, go back to her house, BBQ, hangout, laugh and watch the slide show that was played at his funeral. His 2 years is coming up in Aug. and we are doing it all again on that day. Its a good way to keep his memory alive. Who cares what ppl think. If it makes you feel better, than do IT!Thug Misseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10289104642660754633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-53371203335070128612009-07-20T12:29:15.961-04:002009-07-20T12:29:15.961-04:00For what it's worth, I always found the antici...For what it's worth, I always found the anticipation to be worse, far worse, than the day itself.<br /><br />By the time the day arrived, I was wrung out and helpless. But at least it went by quickly, and that got the ruddy thing over with.<br /><br />The next one is easier, because you learn what to expect. Not that there's much to look forward to, except getting the ruddy thing over with.<br /><br />And you can get good at that, in time.Roadshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06701468219259761540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-16089521127073133042009-07-14T19:57:01.150-04:002009-07-14T19:57:01.150-04:00I am facing my first next month. I am dreading eve...I am facing my first next month. I am dreading every minute and making plans to stay busy. I am sure the tears will hit anyway. <br /><br />Prayers for you, <br />EricaChillin' with Lemonadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10627186619951420386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-88817965029078739222009-07-14T06:38:25.643-04:002009-07-14T06:38:25.643-04:00The first one is the hardest... But they all still...The first one is the hardest... But they all still grip me, even though my grief is not as intense. You will just have to treat yourself nicely. Do something you don't normally do. But let yourself cry somewhere too.Mars Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11403414048823693159noreply@blogger.com