tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post1410895071711512147..comments2023-10-09T15:47:14.355-04:00Comments on And you may ask yourself-well...how did I get here?: Yesterday, August 7thStarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18241931590875029855noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-26370691607535666432011-08-08T19:47:01.334-04:002011-08-08T19:47:01.334-04:00Star ~
I am so sorry your day was so bad. I am al...Star ~<br /><br />I am so sorry your day was so bad. I am also sorry that people close to you have fallen away. I feel terrible that more people in your life did not reach out to you, to make sure you were ok.<br /><br />It is such a sad thing, once a tragedy happens people are there in the tons, and then as time passes, everyone assumes we are ok, and life goes on.<br /><br />Every time someone close to me has a tragedy, I now make sure I stay in for the long haul. I appreciate that from others, and I will be that way for someone else.<br /><br />Before my accident, I was a tragedy dodger, doing the minimum, because I was so scared. In my situation, I look around and wonder if these people are the former me, and do care so immensely (b/c I always did, but had a funny way of showing it) or do they really not think of us. Probably some of both.<br /><br />Your cake was beautiful, layers and all.<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />JenJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02455367671890571478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6918105604270007470.post-83121320837084036652011-08-08T19:37:10.806-04:002011-08-08T19:37:10.806-04:00I'm so sorry, Star. I haven't read in a f...I'm so sorry, Star. I haven't read in a few days since I've been hosting company and now traveling. I saw that the date was approaching. I wish I would've remembered that and commented.<br />It sucks. So bad.<br />I know.<br />It'll be 4 years in December and I know that everyone has moved on with their lives and they think, mostly, that I'm "all better". Little do they know (lucky them) that I will never be "all better". Better? Yes. All? Nope.<br />And I will always hate that day.<br />Always.<br />Even though it's not the day's fault and even though it's the birthday of my sister, brother and step-dad. Which seems to make it all the suckier. A day to wish someone else happiness and joy seems to take away the importance of what it means for me, and my children.Janinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00949809367923657970noreply@blogger.com