To. mor. row!!
So many feelings.
I woke up at 7am.
I could not go back to sleep.
I am going to be married.
But I was married.
I was happily married.
Before my life was ripped away from me.
I am so scared.
Scared it is going to be ripped away again.
I cannot go through that again.
Scared Mr. X will leave me.
Scared life will not be as I think.
As I need.
As I want.
It is weird to think I will not be a widow anymore.
At least to most people.
People will think I have forgotten Roger.
Or that I have moved on.
That I do not think of him.
The truth is I think of Roger all the time.
And even more so the last few days.
I cannot even begin to describe how hurt I am that some of Roger's family has abandoned me.
They don't visit when they are in Orlando.
They did not even RSVP to the wedding, respond to messages, texts, or phone calls.
I feel like this wedding is the line in the sand with them.
Some people in my future may never know Roger existed in my life.
And in some ways that is good.
And in other ways it makes me sad.
I am trying hard to focus on the positive feelings.
Push away the fear.
Enjoy the day.
Enjoy my new husband.